University: Expectation vs reality
Tony Brims
“I expected university to be extremely difficult, but I’ve learned that with proper time management and effort, it’s manageable. Teaching yourself is key. Lecturers won’t spoon-feed you like in school. I also thought it would be full of parties and new friends, the way it is in American college movies, but in reality, it’s mostly due dates!”
John Ngalangi
“I expected university to be financially easy, but every month is a struggle to balance food, transport and unexpected costs. Budgeting is crucial because even small expenses like printing, data or lunch add up quickly. You learn to prioritise needs over wants, and sometimes that means skipping social events just to make it to the next month.”
Kariiue Katjikonde
“I went into university expecting the whole college experience. Beautiful campuses, fun social events and non-stop excitement, just like in the movies. But reality set in quickly. Instead of parties, it was a constant cycle of trying to keep up with assignments, tests and deadlines. Back in school teachers made sure you showed up; here no one cares if you miss class. It’s all on you. To me university turned out to be more about discipline than just having fun.”
Abigail Munalula
“I anticipated starting university in the hostel to feel like the sound of freedom. I will finally do anything I want to! No more parents and teachers controlling me. The fact suddenly became clear - freedom comes with responsibilities. I would have to handle funds, cook and balance schoolwork while maintaining a social life. On top of that, it was rather overwhelming. However, it exposed me to areas in my life that needed attention.”
Manga Simbwae
“I expected university to guarantee success as long as I attended classes. But I quickly learned that just showing up isn’t enough. You have to put in extra effort—reading beyond lecture notes, researching and asking questions. No one pushes you to succeed; it’s all on you. Self-discipline and perseverance matter more than just intelligence.”
“I expected university to be extremely difficult, but I’ve learned that with proper time management and effort, it’s manageable. Teaching yourself is key. Lecturers won’t spoon-feed you like in school. I also thought it would be full of parties and new friends, the way it is in American college movies, but in reality, it’s mostly due dates!”
John Ngalangi
“I expected university to be financially easy, but every month is a struggle to balance food, transport and unexpected costs. Budgeting is crucial because even small expenses like printing, data or lunch add up quickly. You learn to prioritise needs over wants, and sometimes that means skipping social events just to make it to the next month.”
Kariiue Katjikonde
“I went into university expecting the whole college experience. Beautiful campuses, fun social events and non-stop excitement, just like in the movies. But reality set in quickly. Instead of parties, it was a constant cycle of trying to keep up with assignments, tests and deadlines. Back in school teachers made sure you showed up; here no one cares if you miss class. It’s all on you. To me university turned out to be more about discipline than just having fun.”
Abigail Munalula
“I anticipated starting university in the hostel to feel like the sound of freedom. I will finally do anything I want to! No more parents and teachers controlling me. The fact suddenly became clear - freedom comes with responsibilities. I would have to handle funds, cook and balance schoolwork while maintaining a social life. On top of that, it was rather overwhelming. However, it exposed me to areas in my life that needed attention.”
Manga Simbwae
“I expected university to guarantee success as long as I attended classes. But I quickly learned that just showing up isn’t enough. You have to put in extra effort—reading beyond lecture notes, researching and asking questions. No one pushes you to succeed; it’s all on you. Self-discipline and perseverance matter more than just intelligence.”
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